Start here. This is the direct spoken answer to practice first.
Why this question matters
Tell, don't ask means asking an object to perform a meaningful operation instead of pulling out its state and making its decision elsewhere. It is most valuable when the object owns an invariant that callers could otherwise duplicate or bypass.
Tell, don't ask means asking the object that owns a rule to perform the decision instead of extracting its state and deciding elsewhere. Instead of reading Order.Status, Items, and Total in several services to decide whether cancellation is allowed, I call order.Cancel(reason). The Order checks its state and records a valid transition. The application service still coordinates loading, authorization, persistence, and notifications. The principle moves the decision, not the entire use case, into the entity.