Start here. This is the direct spoken answer to practice first.
Why this question matters
A database command timeout bounds how long a command may execute; it is distinct from connection timeout and request cancellation. It protects capacity, but it does not explain why the command was slow or guarantee that a timed-out write had no effect.
I set a database command timeout that fits the endpoint's response budget and pass the request cancellation token to EF Core operations. A connection timeout limits opening a connection, while a command timeout limits command execution; request cancellation reflects the caller leaving or the API ending the request. If normal list queries hit the command timeout, I inspect generated SQL, execution plans, indexes, row counts, and blocking instead of simply raising the value.